Blog, August 26th, 2014
Hello, My Faithful Readers:
I’ve
included a photo of me, my host mother and host sister at the river in Terjola,
while we were on vacation out West in Georgia (early August, 2014)!
Today marks four months here in Georgia with
the Peace Corps!
In some ways I feel like I have lived here for a
very long time and in other ways I feel like I just arrived. It all very mixed;
however, here in Sagarejo all is terrific. I am feeling more and more like a
member of the community and the host family. When I go into the bazaar some
(not all) of the vendors speak to me. I can speak more Georgian now so I can
respond (somewhat). They all know who I am and at times I can even understand
what they are saying about me. Nice things like “she is the volunteer teacher
living here.” Also, as I am meeting more
and more of the neighbors they recognize me as I am walking up or down the
mountain. Neighbors driving on the mountain road offer rides which is really
great and yet I miss the walking J. I hope it continues when the weather turns
nasty. But, even now it is great as it
is so hot.
Up until now I have been posting twice a week but
that is going to change. As events are gearing up I am just not doing to have
the time to blog at the same rate. I plan to continue at least one a week. I so
enjoy the blogging and many people have told me they are enjoying reading of my
adventures (thank you!). I am just so happy to be able to share all this. I
also am so surprised at the amount of text I create. When I sit down to write I
think that I am not going to have enough to fill one page; and yet, every time
I write I reach six pages and then some.
It has been excessively hot here in Sagarejo. The
school doctors postponed the start of summer camp (due to begin 8/25) because
of the heat. They said it was not healthy to have a camp with the kind of heat
we have been having. So, camp will begin weather permitting, on 9/1/14 (which
is LABOR DAY). The Peace Corps does
celebrate both American and Georgian holidays as the PC office is closed on all
holidays. Other than that, I don’t think I would remember.
My host mother just returned from visiting her
parents in Terjola. She came home with a turkey. I immediately thought it was
probably alive (like the chickens we brought home); but, alas – the turkey was
in a pot ready to cook. All the feathers were gone and so was the head. It made me sad to look at this turkey as I
had met him/her when I visited Terjola a few weeks ago. The turkey was boiled in a pot on top of the
stove. We all had this conversation about how in America we bake the turkey;
but, here in Georgia they don’t use the oven that comes with the stove. They
have something that looks like a microwave and they use it to bake cakes and
such. The turkey was just too big to fit into it. The turkey is cut into pieces with a tool
that looks like an industrial pair of scissors. I watched as the turkey was cut
into pieces. Every single part of the turkey was put on the table. There was a
little bit of white meat but most of the meat was dark. I missed having
stuffing with the meal. I thought because Georgians eat so much bread there
would be stuffing, but none was to be had. No cranberry sauce either…I must try
and see if I can resolve these items before thanksgiving; but, I am told I
won’t be here in Sagarejo for thanksgiving. The Peace Corps schedules an event
so that all the volunteers are together and we can celebrate Thanksgiving –
location TBD. The last time I was away at Thanksgiving was in 2006, I was in
India. At the hotel we were staying at in India they prepared a Indian
Thanksgiving. Lots of food swimming in sauces and french fries. I remember it
well. J
I am struck with the fact that at meals there is
little if any conversation. People just drift to the table and start eating. Initially I thought it was strange. They
don’t even ask for something to be passed. They just point or try their best to
get the plate that the food is on. Sometimes after people are done eating then
the conversation starts. The
conversation can go on for an hour or more after the meal but nothing is
discussed really during the meal. People are concentrating on just eating. It
is all so different than what I am used to. The Georgian people make sure you
always have a clean plate. During my first days here when they took my plate
away I thought that meant no more food for me; however, they just took the
dirty plate away and gave me a clean plate. I am wondering if this habit of not
talking is a throw back to the time when the country was more agrarian than it
is now. People coming in from the fields were too tired to talk. However, I
must say that in my present situation it is always a relief not to have to make
small talk at the dinner table. Also, since I mostly don’t know what they are
talking about I really cannot contribute.
I must tell you about the corn. If nothing else I
would come back next summer for the corn. It is grown in our back garden and it
is beyond delicious. As the meal is being prepared we all go back and pick the
corn. We husk the corn in the garden and bring the corn into the kitchen for
cooking. Georgian’s don’t use butter on the corn. They salt the corn (on the
cob) with their fingers (they don’t use salt and pepper shakers either).
Actually, they use pepper rarely. It is not routinely placed on the table as
salt it. All the garbage (cobs and
everything else) ends up with the pig.
The pig takes care of everything – my Wilber!
Here in Georgia when a girl marries she goes to live
with her husband and his family. I’ve listened to a few Georgian women who are
not happy with this tradition (or maybe more cultural than traditional). The
women end up living with their mother-in-law. As a new bride they come into the
home of the husband’s family and they have to adjust to their way of living. I have
many opinions as to why this is done; but, I would think my readers could also
think of reasons. However, I don’t think the younger generation is going to
take to this. The internet has changed the world. The young women see how other
people live and work and they want what they see on TV and the internet. Going
to live with their mother-in-law is not high on the list. Because salaries are
so low for women some women are forced to stay and live with their parents.
They don’t think they will ever be able to live on their own. I know I will
hear and see more about this as time goes forward.
There is a lot of drinking (alcohol) here in
Georgia. Most meals include wine, beer or cha-cha. I was taken back when during
a meal the 2-year old we had staying with us was given a glass of beer. They
bribed the youngster to the table with the incentive that there was “piva” –
Russian for beer. The little tot sat and drank the entire glass and wanted
more. I am not permitted to say anything
about things I see that I don’t like. However, everyone at the table gave him
high-fives for finishing the beer. The men in Georgia give a toast every time
they take a drink of wine or cha-cha. It almost sounds like they are praying.
The men bow their heads and mumble (it seems to me). I can tell that they are
really feeling what they are toasting. The toast can go on for 30-45 seconds,
all the while everyone is holding their glass waiting to clink glasses. They
toast everything; but, mostly people who are not hear any longer. Glasses are
refilled many, many times during the meal. Again, I have lots of opinions about
what I think about this that I will keep to myself.
I’ve been busy preparing the lesson plans that the
Peace Corps requires. I also have so much homework to supplement the language
classes that I am enrolled in. I spend hours at the computer thinking and
planning (and school has not even started yet). Many people of the Peace Corps
staff (and really most of Georgia) are on vacation in August. The PC requires
everyone to have a backup, so we volunteers do have people to reach out to with
questions and help to solve problems.
The PC really does have their act together.
We got another HUGH bucket of walnuts from the
trees. I thought all of that was done, but no way. We sat for hours hitting the
walnuts with hammers and then sifting through the shells in order to separate
the nut. While we were sitting around doing this someone (or a few someones) started
singing (in the background). I am not sure where in the neighborhood they were
located, but it was so quiet we could hear them. It was lovely. Their voices
drifted into our garden and gave us a concert as we were cracking nuts. There
were no musical instruments, just voices. All of this just makes up the fabric
of my experience.
Most of the visitors have left, but I’m told they
will be back. Because, Thursday, 8/28 is a religious holiday here and the Peace
Corps celebrates BOTH American and Georgian Holidays. This day commemorates the "falling asleep" or
death of Mary”, the mother of
Jesus. I am told that we are doing something on Thursday, but don’t know quite
what it is? (Language is still a challenge). But, I am sure whatever it is will
be unique and interesting for me from a cultural aspect.
მარიამობა - Saint Mary’s Day
Also,
I just realized that Monday, September 1st is LABOR DAY. I forget
about the American Holidays living here in Georgia.
All
is well here for me in Georgia. On many levels I feel very much at peace here
and so taken care of; however, there is also a level of anxiety as I anticipate
the approaching school year (I've never taught consistently in a classroom) and the upcoming winter season (as well as just general anticipation of living life in another culture). I wonder what it will be
like to live in the “cold.” Heating here, I am told is marginal. Even if there
is heat there is not much of it. I am trying to put all that aside as (at the
moment) it is SO HOT; and try not to get too far ahead of myself. I have found
over the last four months that I have met every challenge and will continue to
do so. The PCV say that the second winter is harder than the first because
right now I don’t know what to expect. The second winter I know what is coming.
I just hope that maybe we will have a mild winter. In any event, it is going to
be whatever “mother nature” is going to throw at us – so, no use worrying about
something I cannot do anything about. I hope that the host family has the
heating system that was promised (for my room) and I can always buy additional
heaters.
Ok,
I will close for now and wish everyone a GREAT week as we approach the official
end of summer in America.
Best, Catherine
Lawrence, G14 – 8/26/14
Peace
Corps Volunteer – Republic of Georgia
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contents of this blog are mine personally and do not reflect any position of
the U.S. Government or the Peace Corps.